Castism is an anathema.

.Castism is an anathema for our country. Directly or indirectly it is precluding development of our country but who admits it???Like every mother who thinks that her child is the only good person, every one think that his own caste is supreme. I belong to a Brahmin family.. I never say but other people say that we are supreme. Some of my friends belong to kshtriya, they believe that they are supreme because their ancestors protected our country even lord Ram was kshtriya. In Meerut, it seems that country is adminstrated by Jaat but I have keen desire to know that which kind of role they played in freedom movements? Gurjar …..what they think I don’t want to explain.

Above lines are describing that every person belongs to supreme caste. If we talk about reservations then they say it is for representations. Anyways today I m not going to talk about reservation. Here I m going to talk about most important thing of our society..”Marriage”.

I have a friend. Like every guy of Modern era he had a girlfriend. Relation had been profound. Instead of lust they were emotionally attached. They wanted to get marriage, but they belong from different caste.

The boy hasn’t any job but he is laborious student and have talent. Surely he will find a job soon.

The girl has not completed her education yet but her family members are compeling her to get married. She talked about the boy to her mother but she taunted that –अभी अण्डे में से निकला नहीं और शादी करनी है ??

Although, the girl and the boy are of same age group. Girl’s brother asked his mother to ask her if she likes anyone but then she replied that she will think about it if the girl finds a better person than the one found the parents.

Obviously if we talk about job then boy has nothing but if we talk about love, care etc, then I can confidently say that no one can love her more than him because both are my friend and I know them very closely.

The family of boy is also not genial. They say that you first become An officer then we will talk about anything else and then they say that don’t you think if you become an officer, you are eligible to marry her. It is impossible to marry her, you have to get married in our community.

I want to know ..that if only IAS,PCS or any other Officer has right to do love marriage in India.

If a peon or clerk fall in love, have not they any right to do love marriage?? as in our community, I have seen arrange marriage of lousy people.

I told you that both are my friends even good friends. There relation began before me. The truth of their love is known by me. When the marriage was fixed, the girl abondon him as well as us. I don’t know how she is..??? but every day I see the boy..with a fake smile on his face. Sometimes we caught him while he is crying..my brother consoles him and try to make him laugh. We have to live, people live without their parents. yeah..he is right, but we can only imagine his pain ..can’t feel. The boy is completely broken. Although girl protected reputation of her family but in my view she did a blunder.

In Meerut I see different types of love..some for one night stand..some for more than one night stand..and some for time pass.

Is it true that truth always triumphs??

definetly not…because in my age group (including below 5 years and above 5 years), almost 90% has gf and bf..i see them while they talking on phone. But if I ask them whether they will get marry or not..70% says absolutely not just time pass..some says..”देखेंगे ”..only 2% says yeah they will get marry.

They love their family and never planned about elopement. I also strongly criticise elopement.but niether boy has father like Anupam Kher who motivates him to marry the girl he likes, nor girl has father like Amrish Puri who says..जा सिमरन जा....जी ले अपनी ज़िंदगी ।

Relations of modern era shows we are changing, adopting westernization culture, but only weird things like 'live in relationship'. Almost every person has gf/bf but few are getting married. I saw some boys who cheated on girl friend and became an idol child of his father and got married according to wish of his father, but after cheating someone.. can anyone become idol??

every parents have same dialogue-बेटा! हमें जीते जी मार दोगे?

बेटा! हमारे मुँह में कालिख पोतोगे ?

Yaar no one wants to hurt his/her parents, but parents should be genial.

Sacrament is important..not society.

it’s my humble request to all lovers of modern era that every person has got a strict father..every father has reputation in society…and everyone loves his father. Almost every father is like Amrish puri, but try to get marry with your lover, dont elope…but triumphs your family..be hero in your life..make your own story..if you have fallen in love then absolutely marry your lover. If you cheated anybody..that is sin..no one would be happy if his son has done a sin.

समय के बदलने का इन्तजार मत करो, ..हमसे समय बदलेगा..समय से हम नहीं। हम बदलेगा युग बदलेगा।

don’t promote your caste.

be an Indian.

be a realistic person.

thank you!!!

Written by vishal arun mishra,

Law student

Contact-9005173714

a slap on education

Administration is most retractable thing in
india specially for educational institutions.
They became an institution for minting
money rather than a temple of knowledge.
In every educational institutions there is a
need of strict administration to resolve
problems which are often arises by ruffian
students and local mobsters.
In every institution a group of disturbing
elements always present to create hindrances
for those students who are Innocent or
outsiders.they are compelled to tolerate
hooligans to keep their study well.
In our nation regionalism is one of the main
social problem. Some time regionalism
become a cause of quarrel. A person who is
outsider has to face all discrimination and
Satires on linguistic bases.
Zonary students think that they have blessed
with special privileges by mother earth to
dominate extraneous. Police always boost
them for doning so instead take appropriate
action against them.
In my college a student slapped a teacher
when he was scolded in class room, how
much it was humiliating for him?
My college's disciplinary Committee didn't
took any strict action againest the culprit. He
regularly attend the college and my college
allowed him to attain the classes.
The director of my college complained to
disciplinary Committee for suspension of the
offender but management always needs
money rather than discipline. Management
haven't any intention to punish perversity.
This is very common in every educational
institutions. Teachers are disobeyed, they
have lost their respect and reputation.
Girls are the nation maker's but they are
abused, many students outrage their
modesty, mobster who's direct approach with
management often passed obscene comment
on them.
College became open place for battle,
quarrels are normal in college campus.
Security guards feel fear to do any action
because of their own security, they Know
very well what will consequences if they
beats Zonary students.
I am very curious to Know which kind of
heroics is to slap a teacher or To beat an
Innocent student or to beat an outsider
student and to do outrageous activities
towards a college going girl?
Our college authorities can mint money
easily but never earn respect from students
who are victims of tolerance.
Making shirdi temple in college campus
wouldn't help you to achieve a safe space in
heaven.
In hindu methodology it is to be believed
that a teacher is a guide of the path of the
god that's why he deserve much more
respect than god. A teacher is most
respectable person on the earth but in my
college situations are adverse.
If a teacher is slapped then god will
automatically slapped. There is no need of
temple so please vandalize it.
After spending four years in Meerut i came
to realize educational institutions are
established only for minting money,
education is a mere breach of dreams of
students who believes that college will make
their future bright. College can frustrate you
but nothing else.
shame on you culprits! You are the culprits
of future of india.

नारी

दूर्वा हूँ, मै घास हूँ,
सदा से कुचली
जाती हूँ,
हर कोइ कुचल के
चला जाता है,
मैँ जीवन देने वाली
हूँ ,
पर मेरा जीवन
दासता मेँ बीतता है,
कभी पति की,
कभी सास की,
लोग ताने देते हैँ,
और मै सहती हूँ,
डर से नही
मेरा स्वभाव ही ऐसा है.
कष्ट मुझे तब होता है,
जब मेरा जन्मा बेटा ही मुझे अपशब्द कहता है.
और मैँ बस
देखती रह जाती हूँ,
मुझे अब सहना बँद करना है, क्योँकी सहने की एक सीमा होती है,
और उस सीमा को
पुरुष पार कर चुका है.
अब झुकी तो मिट जाऊँगी.